Five Tips For Attracting Women
Thursday, April 16th, 2009
Most men think that it takes so much to attract women. Believe it or not, it is not as difficult as you may think. Here are five tips for men on attracting a women.
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1. Be Yourself
This is the number one thing that will attract women to you. No one wants to date a guy that is fake or pretending to be something he is not. If you are really a geek at heart, then act like it. Most women can tell when a guy is not being himself. Be true to who you are and you will attract the right women for you.
2. Have Confidence
It is very evident when a man does not have confidence in himself. If you are not confident, then how do you expect to attract women? There is nothing worse than dating a man that has lower self-esteem than you do. If you don’t like yourself, than how is a woman going to like you? Be confident and think about how great you actually are. But, don’t get overly confident as this falls into the cocky area and women don’t like a cocky guy for very long.
3. Be Mysterious
Now, when I say to be mysterious, this doesn’t mean that you don’t tell women anything about you, but you should keep them guessing at first. Don’t put all your business out there when you first meet a girl. This also holds true for bragging. Stay quiet about your accomplishments and let the women discover them on her own instead of you coming out and just bragging about them. There is definitely something appealing to a guy that is mysterious. You just want to get to know him better.
4. Take Charge
Don’t just sit back and wait for a woman to come to you. You have to take charge and do something to attract women. Women like a can-do attitude in a man. This alos applies once a woman has shown interest in you. Once you have received the signs from her that she is interested in you, make the next move. You need to be the one that takes the intiative to make the move on the woman. But, don’t be too aggressive or bully the woman. Find a happy medium were you run the show, but she still is happy.
5. Don’t Appear Desperate
Just like men, women don’t want somebody who is desperate and falls in love quickly. This means, don’t get upset if she doesn’t call you when she says she will. Takes things in stride because if the relationship is meant to be it will happen. Don’t be so desperate as to push a relationship that just doesn’t work well. Be cool and don’t rush into things. Let her set the pace for the relationship.
Truth be told, it is not that hard attracting women, even if you are not the greatest looking guy in the world. Being yourself, having confidence, being mysterious and cool can do wonders for a guy.
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