Tips For Successfully Picking Up Women
Tuesday, June 23rd, 2009
Men are not always the smoothest or smartest creatures when it comes to picking up women. Sometimes they will stumble and just fail miserably and other men are just not wise to the ways of properly picking up women. Here are some tips from a woman for successfully picking up women.
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Don’t approach a woman as soon as she walks into the door. Most women will not give you the time of day if you rush up to her as soon as she walks into the door or the event. Most women are there to catch up with friends, have a drink, and be social with people they know. They don’t want a guy trying to pick them up within in 10 minutes of arriving.
Just because you bought the woman a drink, doesn’t mean that she owes you anything. You are the one that is taking the chance of spending money on the women and it not her fault if she is not interested in you. Just because you bought her a beverage doesn’t mean she will automatically says yes when you ask her out.
Respect a woman’s space when you talk to her. This means that you should keep at least several inches in between you and her when you talk to her. You don’t have to touch her, and if you do it should only be a casual breeze of her hand or shoulder. Don’t go up to woman and grab their butts or put your arm around them if you have never met them before. This is a sure fire way to get hit or a drink spilled on you.
When you do ask a woman out on a date, be sure that it is several days in advance. If you meet an awesome woman on a Friday night, don’t ask her out on a date for Saturday night. Instead see what she is doing next Wednesday or Thursday. This shows that you appreciate that she has a schedule and may already have plans. If she wants to have a date with you earlier than that, she will let you know.
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If you approach a woman who is sitting with a group of her girlfriends, do not move on to the next girl if the first one you approach turns you down. There is nothing worse than being second fiddle to another woman, even if it is your friend. So, pick out the woman that you really would like to get to know and if she denies you, move on to the next group of women, not one of her friends. This is just rude and you come off as a player and not in a good way.
Be yourself when you try to pick up women. Most women can tell when a guy is lying or exaggerating. When you act like yourself, you come off friendlier and more conformable which can definitely win you more dates with women.
It does not take a genius to when it comes to picking up women. Just don’t act like you are God’s gift to women and don’t be a player and you may just find success picking up women.
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I sometimes, for good fortune, rub soy sauce on my chest before approaching a female. This intensifies our conversations and adds zest to our bodies rubbing together in the dusky barn outside of my house.
Well…there’s one way - don’t rush things. Just like that
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It’s all about being respectful of her feelings and taking things slowly. No woman likes to be rushed into things but many men fail to understand that.
-Jean