Tips For Understanding Women
Sunday, July 19th, 2009
Credit: Althewebmaster
Men often have the problem of really understanding women and having proper communication with them. I admit that women are often hard to communicate with, but women feel that way about men as well. I am going to give you a few tips for understanding women and you may just be able to properly communicate with your girlfriend or wife.
*Most of the time, a women will not come right out and ask you a question or express a point. Instead we will tiptoe around what we want to know until you finally tell us what exactly we want to know. This leaves men to decipher exactly what their woman wants. So, you better find out her hidden agenda quickly so she can get off your back about the subject.
*Women need to feel like they are important and special. This means that we need your attention. This could mean taking time out to do the little things for us or just acknowledging us and asking us how we are doing every once in awhile. Never, ever ignore your wife or girlfriend when you are out in public. This will only spell bad news for you.
*Women are driven by their hormones. Many times, we react with our emotions before we really have thought out the situation. This means that we may be illogical or erratic during certain times. A simple compliment can turn into a fight if you are not careful. If your wife or girlfriend is being moody or emotional, this is your time to find something to do out of the house.
*Women sometimes expect men to be able to read out minds. We expect you to know what we like, when we want something and what exactly to do. Yes, we know that you really can’t read our minds, but we have high expectations and that is just something that comes along with us, so you are just going to have to get over this one.
*A woman always remembers what you say during a fight. This means even though you may have said something like you thought her sister was annoying three months ago when you were fighting about something stupid, she will remember it and will eventually bring it up again. Women do not forget things you say, especially during the heat of a fight. So, even if you are having an argument, watch what you say.
*Women want their boyfriends or husbands to tell them that they appreciate them. You don’t have to do this on a daily basis, but every once in awhile let your woman know how much you appreciate her and everything that she does for you. It will go a long way with her and will make her day or even week.
*Women are very intuitive. This means we can usually tell when you are hiding something. So, this means, don’t hide things from us or lie to us. Sooner or later we will find out the truth as we pick up rather easy on signs of you being nervous. You will have much better communication with your woman if you just tell her things from the beginning and not have to make her work to find out the truth.
Author information: Tiffany is a professional freelance writer who isn't afraid to tell a guy how it really is. Read more from this author
Tags: communication, understanding women, women, women need
Sometimes it seems like such a cryptic game being played between women and the man. I just wish we did not have to tip toe around to get to the truth.
-Jean