Female Manipulation Tricks and How To Spot Them Before It’s Too Late
Saturday, August 8th, 2009
When a woman wants something bad enough, she is going to get it one way or another. This is were her manipulation skills come into play. Women have been using manipulation tricks for centuries and it doesn’t appear that women are going to stop anytime soon.
If you know what a woman’s manipulation tricks are, you can better defeat her trickery and not let her rule all over you. Here are some common manipulation tricks that women try to pull off over men.
Tears
Most women can start crying on the drop of a dime. It takes nothing for your girlfriend or wife to start shedding some tears to get what she wants. We know that men hate seeing women cry and especially if it is in a public place. The thing is that girls learn this trick really early. Little girls easily use this one on their fathers to get what they want and it only continues until they are an adult and they are using it on their significant other. The only way to get past this trick is to avoid it all costs. Unless it is an actual emergency or a traumatic event, run out of the room as fast as you can when a woman starts crying.
Flattery
Let’s face it, men love when women stroke their egos, so when a woman starts paying you compliments it may be because she really wants something in return. The flattery could be about anything from your looks, to how much she appreciates everything you do to your bedroom skills. She figures that since you are feeling so good about yourself, that you are going to give into whatever her demands are. The key to not being tricked with flattery is to pay attention. Now, this is not always the easiest for a guy, but if you start noticing patterns like she starts to really compliment and praise you and then a day later she asks for something, she is a woman who uses the flattery trick. Once you have been taken by it once, it is easier to avoid in the future, if you pay attention and don’t let your ego get in the way. So, when she starts paying you tons of compliments in span of a few days, start agreeing with her instead of thanking her. She is going to want to flatter you less if she thinks that you agree with all the compliments and it will put her tricks to rest… for now.
Making You Jealous
This is probably one of the most common manipulation tricks that women use. We know how jealous that men can get when it comes to their woman and we use that to our advantage. This could involve being flirtatious with another guy in front of you or just simply talking about another guy a little too many times to you. The reasoning behind this trick is that women think that if men feel at risk of losing their girl, they are going to work harder to keep her happy, which means giving her what she wants. The best tactic to put up with this trickery is to just ignore it. This will drive her absolutely crazy, which is an added bonus for trying to manipulate you!
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