How To Drive a Woman Away
Wednesday, August 12th, 2009
There are certain things that men can do that will instantly drive women away. Despite what you think, most women will overlook a lot of things because they want to see the best in you. They want to date you so they may over look some tiny red flags, but when those tiny red flags turn into big red flags, you may just be watching your girl walk away.
If you know the things that will drive her away, you can better realize what you do and correct the situation before she leaves you. Here are several things that will drive women away.
1.Badmouthing Other People
Believe it or not women don’t like when you talk bad about other people, especially people who you befriend and then talk about behind their back. Even though women may like to gossip, that doesn’t meant that they want to hear their boyfriends being disloyal to other people. So, don’t talk about how much of a jerk your best friend is or what he did last night that could ruin his reputation. It shows your disloyalty to others, which could possibly mean that you are disloyal to your girlfriend as well. If you can talk behind the back of your best friend, what is stopping you from talking behind the back of your girlfriend?
2.Lack of Motivation
Most women will not hold your job against you, especially if you are just starting out in the business, but if you are happy with your pizza delivery job and you don’t have any dreams of moving up on the job ladder, you may just have to say goodbye to your girl. Women want men who have motivation to succeed in life. We want men who have dreams of doing something rather than just being content where they are in life. This pertains to the professional scene as well as your relationship. If you never see yourself getting married and or settling down, you are going to have a hard time keeping a girlfriend when you do find one that you want.
3.Lack of Attention
There is nothing worse that a girl hates than lack of attention from her date. You need to show your woman they attention that she needs. This means planning dates for just the two of you instead of always having your friends along. It means spending time just with her at least once a week. It also means that when you are out with your friends, that you still show her attention. Be sure that she is happy and satisfied. Get her a drink if she needs one and always make sure that you introduce her to anybody that you meet. If you don’t give your woman the attention that she wants, she is going to find it from another man.
Sometimes men do these things without even thinking. They may not realize exactly what they are doing to drive women away, but being aware of these red flags that women pick up on, will help you to stop doing this in the future.
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