How to Put the Spark Back In Your Marriage
Sunday, August 30th, 2009
© Jenny Rollo
After being married for several years, you may find that your marriage lacks that certain “spark” that you used to have with your wife. Fortunately, that spark can be found again. Here are some ways to sweep your wife off her feet again.
Take your wife on a blind date. This may sound kind of funny, but if you remember that in the beginning of your relationship it was the suspense of the times that you did get to see here that made your relationship so appealing. Agree to meet up at a location that you have never been to before. Both of you should drive separately and this works even better if you do this after work or after not being together in the house and then leaving at the same time. The date brings back that new feeling to a relationship and helps you to just concentrate on each other and nothing else.
Get away for the weekend. If you and your wife live very busy lives, then you need to take a breather every once in awhile and just get away. You need to get away from the everyday stresses that you have in life. Escape to a bed and breakfast a few hours away or even a spa weekend works well for relaxation. Be sure to leave all your stress such as work, bills, and any other home issues at home.
Find a common passion or hobby to do together. Finding something that you can do together brings back that camaraderie feeling and can help spark those romantic feelings as well. Discuss with your wife anything that you may like to do that she may not know about, or things that you would be willing to learn and have an interest in. See if you have any common things with your wife and pursue them together. It could be something like cooking classes or it could regular tennis matches.
Make quality time for your wife at night. Turn the television off and actually talk to your wife. Try to solely focus on your wife and what the conversation is about. Spending quality time with let’s her know that you still care about her and what is going on in her life. You can afford to take one or two nights a week away from the television or reading to fully spend some quality time with your wife. Spending just an hour together, just concentrating on your relationship a few times a week can make a dramatic difference in your marriage.
Putting the spark back into your marriage is not always easy, especially if you and your wife have gone several years without that spark. Start off with small things, such as just paying attention to your wife more and then maybe try the weekend getaway. Most of all, make sure that you communicate with your wife and let her know that you want to rekindle the romance and get the spark back
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Great post. My wife and I live in Marietta GA, have been married almost 13 years, and we had things go a little flat from year 10-12. This past year, we’ve both been investing in each other and our time together like your post suggests. I like the blind date idea, that’s one we haven’t tried, but we will soon. Keep these great posts coming and thanks for the encouragement!
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