Reasons Why a Woman Doesn’t Call You Back
Thursday, September 3rd, 2009
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So, you meet a beautiful girl who acts like she is interested in you and you flirt with her all night. At the end of the night, she gives you her phone number and then a few days later you end up getting her voicemail and leaving a message. Another few more days go by and you still haven’t heard back from the girl? You sit and ask yourself why she hasn’t called back and could you have gotten all the wrong signs from her? Or maybe she never got your voicemail and you think that you should call back? Here are the most popular reasons why a woman doesn’t call you back.
She Gave You Her Phone Number Only to Be Nice
Most women don’t want to be mean to men so they will give them their phone number even if they are not really interested in pursuing anything with the guy. It’s just too awkward to tell a guy “no” when they ask for your phone number. By giving you her number and never calling you back, she basically takes the easy way out and avoids any awkward situations of turning you down.
She Discovered Something About You She Doesn’t Like
In this day and age, most people learn to Google people that they meet, especially if it is a potential love interest. She may have found something on the Internet such as you MySpace profile that she really didn’t like. Or she could have asked around to her friends if they knew who you were. If she got any negative responses about you, that may have turned her off and now she doesn’t want to pursue anything with you, so she just decides to avoid your call.
There’s Another Guy
If you waited too long to call her, she may have had another guy jump into her life before you could ever call her. Or, she could have been talking to another guy when she met you, and decided to pursue a relationship with that guy shortly after meeting you. This reason for not calling you back is just a case of bad timing and luck.
She Was Under the Influence When She Gave You Her Number
This is often a common occurrence for women when they have been drinking a little too much. They will get a little friendly and will have no problem handing out their phone number to any guy they meet. When she noticed that you called, she most likely got too embarrassed about her drunken ways and decided to not answer the phone. She could have also been so drunk that she doesn’t even remember your little exchange of numbers, so she never calls you back because she doesn’t know who you are. Another possibility is that she does remember who you are and that is the problem that if she was not under the influence you are not the type of man that she would normally date.
If you don’t hear back from a woman a couple of days after you call, do not call her again. This actually looks a little stalkerish and will definitely turn a woman off. Believe me, there is about 1 in 1,000 chance that she did not get your voicemail. The rest of the chances fall in the reasoning above.
There are women who do play hard to get and will wait a couple of days to call you back. If you have not heard back from a woman in over a week, then it is time to forget her and get the next woman’s phone number.
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So last week I hung out with beauty and it went pretty well. This was a planned thing not a first time. Second time. I didn’t meet her at a bar or anything stupid like that. So, we have a few drinks, she plays with my hair, shows me her bra (the frint half) and what not. I do some awkward newbie things but she doesn’t care. At the end of the night she tells me she wants to hang out monday. So I wait around all weekend bummed that I can’t see this lady but I was busy anyway so I didn’t care. So this morning I leave a text saying,” still down for chillen? hope I didn’t wake you.” no response. Okay, she’s asleep. 1:30 I call and leave a message basically asking the same thing and saying you are probably asleep cause I know you worked late the whole weekend. By three still no response. Hmmm. 3:30 I leave a text “:-[ Helloo o o o o o o o o o o?” So now I am waiting still totally bumming out but there is still some hope she’ll call. She’s a good girl so I know she’ll get back to me. It still sucks though, I hope she calls soon. Maybe she’s really really tired. 2-1am! on a weekend. SUCK