5 Signs That a Woman Is Not Into You
Monday, September 7th, 2009
You have been after this girl for weeks and yet she seems to never call you back, flirt with other guys and yet you continue to hold onto the thread of hope that she will one day want to be with you. Look here, guys; there are clear cut signs that a woman is just not that into you. You may have heard about the book He’s Just Not That Into You, well here is a shorter version for men.
Here are five distinct signs that a woman will give a guy to let him know that she is not digging him romantically at all.
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1. She Doesn’t Ever Call You
Are you always the one that has to call her? And even when you do call her, she never seems to call you back? Get a clue! If she really wanted to talk to you, she would be calling you whenever she wanted. Yes, some women play hard to get, but eventually they will give in and let you know that they want to talk to you. Either she is avoiding you and hoping that you will go away or she simply does not think about you enough to call you back. Never call a woman more than 2x’s in a row. If she doesn’t return your call, move on!
2. She Says She Doesn’t Want a Relationship
This is the ultimate, “it’s not you, it’s me” line. She may tell you that she isn’t ready for a relationship yet or she just wants to be single for awhile. This is the biggest brush-off line that women use to be nice to men. This means that she doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you. If a woman really likes a guy and can see herself with him, she will be in a relationship with him no matter what else is going on in her life. So, if you hear this line from a girl, don’t give it a second thought and find another girl to pursue.
3. She Tries To Set You Up With a Friend
It may have never crossed her mind that you and her would ever be a couple. She may just see you as a friend and now you are stick in that friend zone. If she tries to set you up with a friend of hers, this is a definite sign that’s he sees you as nothing more than a friend and it may just be a lost cause trying to pursue anything more. You have two options, you can continue being her friend, or dump her entirely and move on.
4. She Regularly Cancels Plans That She Has With You
If she has cancelled plans on you, especially at the last minute, more than once in a short period of time, then she is using you as a backup guy in case she has nothing better to do. Now, unless she has a good reason like her grandma passed away, there should be no reason why she should have to cancel on you more than once in a matter of a couple of weeks. This shows that she has little respect for you and doesn’t even deserve to be your friend.
5. She Avoids Any Physical Contact with You
If you do happen to get her out on a date or you run into her at the club one weekend, watch her body language when it comes to you getting close to her. Does she shy away even when you just get a little closer? Does she pull away from any physical contact that you attempt, even if it is just a simple touch of her hand or a hug? She is protecting her physical space from you and has no interest in getting any closer to you.
If a woman shows you one of these signs, it may not bode well for you. If she exhibits more than one sign, then it is definitely time to move on to the next girl!
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Tags: not into you, relationship, woman
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