Changes That May Just Doom Your Relationship
Saturday, September 19th, 2009
The beginning of a relationship always starts out the same. You are on your best behavior, you dress nice, you have proper manners and so forth, but then all of a sudden you start getting a little too comfortable with your girlfriend. You may start to get lazy and stop doing the nice things that you used to do for her or you stop acting like such a gentleman at all times. This happens in just about any relationship, but with some relationships these changes may just totally kill the whole deal for the woman. Here are some relationship changes to be aware of that may just kill the relationship for the woman and you may watching your girlfriend walk out the door if you are not careful.
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You Start Slacking On your Hygiene and Appearance
In the beginning of the relationship, you may have showered every day shaved, combed your hair and looked presentable when going out with your girlfriend. You may soon find that you skip some showers, shave about once a week and your hair hasn’t been cut in over 2 months. Any common sense would tell you that your woman likes to have you fresh and clean and not be totally turned off by your appearance. If you stop caring for yourself, then how are you supposed to care for her?
You Stop Complimenting Her
When was the last time that you told your girlfriend that she was pretty or that she looked nice on one your dates? Did you notice when she changed her hairstyle or bought a new dress? If you stop giving your girlfriend compliments she may think that you are not interested anymore and may find another guy to compliment her. This doesn’t mean that you have to compliment her every minute of the day, but pay attention and when a compliment is due, give her one.
You Start Getting an Attitude
In the start of the relationship you may have worked out your differences and compromised. You may have been able to control your temper around her, but soon you find that you get complacent and you start getting a major attitude. This is a total relationship breaker for a woman. Women don’t want a guy who has a temper problem or has attitude every day of the week. If you really want your relationship to work with this girl, then you will try to do anything to control your attitude.
You Start Taking Her for Granted
This is a huge one when it comes to long term relationships. This not only happens with guys but women do it too. You start taking her for granted when it comes to the normal everyday things. You may stop telling her thank you when she cooks you dinner or picks up your dry cleaning. You may start assuming that every Friday night she comes over your place instead of you going to hers. It may be little things that you start taking her for granted for or it may be the larger things, which can definitely lead to the end of a relationship.
If you have been with your girlfriend for some time now, evaluate these items and see if they pertain to you. You may just gain some insight on how to potentially save your relationship from doom.
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Most of it is true, bot I think not everything. And everyone has to remember about Hygiene !!!
There is only quarrel in between us, from the quarrel our relationship has been went to divorce. what do u suggest me to do now.
I am 21yrs but my husband is 38yrs, from the day of the marriage there is no understanding and there is no relationship between us.
Does myspace show relationship status changes in the activity stream on my friends home pages? If so is there a way to not have it show on their pages? Thakns….
I feel a relief, I thought I was just being delusional and overprotective about the situation. I had it deep inside me that I knew something was wrong but I kept denying the truth and needed you all to get me that step forward. I am very thankful, the only option is to break up. Thanks….
Would you rather have the ultimate best friend, your both extremely alike you both look out for each other and care for each other a lot. or a chance and that’s just ONE chance at TRUE love. both are extremely hard to find in life, both are equally precious. what would you choose to give up the other?Thanks a lot.
Hey, I’m writing an essay exploring the complexities of humans. What are some qualities of a true friendship? I have loyalty and forgiveness; I just need like 2-3 more.What are some qualities of a true friendship.
These are almost certain ways to doom a relationship.
In good relationship we always prove our best to partner.Both sides shows their best but it shows later when relation convert into bond.Great really..
Yep these are all deal breakers
This is true. I have seen many couples that fall out a few months into their relationship because of it. It is very important to maintain yourself to the same high standards that you did when you met and not let yourself go.
-Jean
Those are sure fire ways to get a girl to stop likeing you as quick as she started to like you.
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