Changes That May Just Doom Your Relationship
Saturday, September 19th, 2009
The beginning of a relationship always starts out the same. You are on your best behavior, you dress nice, you have proper manners and so forth, but then all of a sudden you start getting a little too comfortable with your girlfriend. You may start to get lazy and stop doing the nice things that you used to do for her or you stop acting like such a gentleman at all times. This happens in just about any relationship, but with some relationships these changes may just totally kill the whole deal for the woman. Here are some relationship changes to be aware of that may just kill the relationship for the woman and you may watching your girlfriend walk out the door if you are not careful.
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You Start Slacking On your Hygiene and Appearance
In the beginning of the relationship, you may have showered every day shaved, combed your hair and looked presentable when going out with your girlfriend. You may soon find that you skip some showers, shave about once a week and your hair hasn’t been cut in over 2 months. Any common sense would tell you that your woman likes to have you fresh and clean and not be totally turned off by your appearance. If you stop caring for yourself, then how are you supposed to care for her?
You Stop Complimenting Her
When was the last time that you told your girlfriend that she was pretty or that she looked nice on one your dates? Did you notice when she changed her hairstyle or bought a new dress? If you stop giving your girlfriend compliments she may think that you are not interested anymore and may find another guy to compliment her. This doesn’t mean that you have to compliment her every minute of the day, but pay attention and when a compliment is due, give her one.
You Start Getting an Attitude
In the start of the relationship you may have worked out your differences and compromised. You may have been able to control your temper around her, but soon you find that you get complacent and you start getting a major attitude. This is a total relationship breaker for a woman. Women don’t want a guy who has a temper problem or has attitude every day of the week. If you really want your relationship to work with this girl, then you will try to do anything to control your attitude.
You Start Taking Her for Granted
This is a huge one when it comes to long term relationships. This not only happens with guys but women do it too. You start taking her for granted when it comes to the normal everyday things. You may stop telling her thank you when she cooks you dinner or picks up your dry cleaning. You may start assuming that every Friday night she comes over your place instead of you going to hers. It may be little things that you start taking her for granted for or it may be the larger things, which can definitely lead to the end of a relationship.
If you have been with your girlfriend for some time now, evaluate these items and see if they pertain to you. You may just gain some insight on how to potentially save your relationship from doom.
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I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, and marries another woman commits adultery.”
I think if the girl is a great girl, and the sex is good, there is no reason to complain.A man wont think less of you if you have sex early in the relationship, as long as you are still a quality girl.
“The best woman is a women who is a lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets”your fine. keep enjoying life.
If they get couples counseling, they might have a shot. But if they try to work it out themselves it is probably going to fail.
there girl in that picture looks amazingly grumpy
yeh at the beginning I’m always Mr.nice guy. Give me a few weeks and you’ll see the jerk
my 2 cents, never tell your partner that you actually liked her sister at the beginning
Unfortunately its just one of those natural human thing that we do, but the truth is, only we can change the situation, and those that do, will have a great future marriage ahead of them!
Till then,
Jean
Very interesting article. I find this to be very informative for any dumb dim-witted twit, relationships are all doomed to failure because it’s held back by a label making bound by the false social standards in terms of love and relationships
Do you have to be in a “relationship” to love someone else? Do you have to be a “husband” to be a father? To me, it seems like saying that one cannot hang with any other friend except their best friend…
I think one must be careful about complimenting too much also as it might give an impression of being fake. I am aware when someone’s compliment is genuine and when it’s for other reasons, like getting something out of it from me or to cheer me up.
Hi very dangers women looking ha ha ha…..:)
Relationships can suck or they can be wonderful. I love the saying, “can’t live with them, cant live without them. Love the advice on keeping your cool I should think about that next time someone (a female) stresses me out.