Secrets to a Successful Long Distance Relationship
Wednesday, September 23rd, 2009
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Long distance relationships can be very, very difficult and often times they don’t end up working out or the people can’t handle the distance and someone ends u moving. Although, they can be difficult there are some ways to make your long distance relationship as successful as possible. Here are some things to remember when it comes to your next long distance relationship.
Communication is key in any relationship but it is really necessary for a long distance relationship to work. You must establish some sort of guidelines and expectations early in the relationship. If you want an exclusive relationship were you don’t date other people, then you must establish that or the person may never what your expectations are. You must also be able to tell the person how you feel on a regular basis. With a long distance relationship you can’t simply see the person when you want and give them a big old hug and kiss, instead you need to make sure that you are expressing your feelings so they know how you feel, both bad and good.
Another thing to remember with long distance relationships is that your partner doesn’t get to be involved in your day to day activities. They aren’t the person that gets to see you every day. Many times this is where jealousy comes from in this type of relationship. They may easily get jealous of any other person of the opposite sex that gets to see you or spend some time with you on a regular basis, even if this person is just simply a co-worker or a friend. Be sure to talk to your partner every day or as often as you can. Involve them in the simple things that you do during the day such as telling them about how work went or telling them about your shopping trip or workout session. When they know what your day is like and what exactly is going on in your life, they don’t seem so far away.
Lastly, you need to try to stay as positive as possible. If you are constantly negative that it’s not going to work out, then you may just secretly sabotage your relationship and you may not even know it. Keep the faith and encourage your partner to do the same. A simple thing like a countdown to when you can see each other is a great way to draw excitement into your relationship. When you do get to actually see each other and spend time together, be sure that you make the most out of it. Don’t spend time fighting over petty things. Plan fun things to do and make time in your schedule for to accommodate spending as much time as possible with your significant other.
Most people know when they get into a long distance relationship it is not going to be easy, but if you stay positive and are truly dedicated to the relationship, it is possible to have a successful long distance relationship.
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I have a relationship that requires that I travel quite some distance. It is tough and has been getting tougher to get together with prices of gas. It’s a good thing that the phone calls cost very little besides the monthly fee.
In long distance relationship,only communication is the way to get close.You can be through voice chat or emailing with partner.Always start first discussion with your partner and never let his/her know that you avoiding…
I think long relationship is demand more attention to your partner because only the communication is the media between.So always get in touch n never ever ignore partner.Try to meet after sometime,until both bond in relationship.
good post.i like this post.thanks.
I almost think LD relationships are easier than ones that are not.
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I am going through this right now. I am hopeing that we can work though being apart for a year. It is hard but I think the outcome will be worth it. We love each other so all I can do is trust that we will pull through.
These are great tips. IT can be hard to be so far away form the one you love but these are great tips to make them feel more at ease.
Long distance relationship is really very difficult to handle as you only can talk with your partner.It require trust both ends and honesty with relation..
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LD relationships can be extremely hard. Thanks for the tips to make it a bit easier.
I think mutual understanding and regular communication with partner is enough for a good relationship.Give extra attention to your partner.
Long distance relationship always demands more attention towards partner.I appreciate your knowledge.
Thanks.
I been in a LDR with a woman for well over four months(on Dec 19 will be five months) its going good but at certain times it gets very difficult and depression sets in.
I’m like 5,000 miles away from her because she’s going to college in Japan and I wont be able to see her until 2013
We text each other everyday even in times when we’re busy, sad or even exhausted from days work.
We send love notes often as well and even role play which is pretty interesting because you will learn very much from her/him- personality, dislikes, turn ons and offs etc.
Trust is the main factor in any relationship especially in LDR.
Building trust towards her/him is a must because in the long run it will maintain the relationship healthy and strong.
Soon him/her will start letting you more in their daily activities and that is a good sign.
If you don’t trust each other its time to move on and find other person you trust. Now if you’re the one who always starts the fight the relationship wont last very long. Like an old house falling apart so will the relationship. Don’t fight often talk to him/her how you feel and show that you care. Fighting will drive your partner away from you.
So fighting is a no..no..even in LDR!
I love her very much…we even got engaged on Sep 21…we’re planning on getting married and having kids…spending my life with her
Well anyways I hope and pray that was helpful to someone in a LDR. God bless you!
Its so difficult to often times. Many problem times creates in long relationship. I mean if you like someone then you have to create with a long relationship with her/him but after some time you got bore with his/her talk, attitude, dress up,and many more thing. You provide such a good tips for make your relationship.
So nice thought and so nice ideas. This is so useful for me and i really enjoy your post and thought.
Long distance relationships are hard. But if you follow these tips it can make it easier.
It can certainly be difficult to keep up a long distance relationship but with good commitment and regular updates, it should work out ok.
-Jean
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