Things a Man Should Never Say To His Wife or Girlfriend About Her Body
Wednesday, March 11th, 2009
Even if you are super comfortable with your wife or girlfriend and you think you can say anything to her: You are wrong. There are always going to be certain things that men should never say to their wives or girlfriends about their bodies if they want to live to see tomorrow. Here are just some examples and instances of things you never want to say to your wife or girlfriend.
photo credit: Porcelaingirl° {josie-grossie}
If a woman ever asks you if she looks fat or big in an outfit, never ever tell her “yes.” I don’t care if she looks bigger than an elephant in the dress, you never tell her that. Woman may say that they want the truth, but most women can’t handle it. If you really are embarrassed of something that your wife or girlfriend is wearing or she looks that bad in it, casually mention another dress or outfit that she has and tell her that it’s your favorite and ask her to wear that one instead.
Almost 100% of the time, things are said during a fight with your wife or girlfriend that you never meant to say. They may be the truth or you may have just said them to hurt her feelings. One that you never ever want to bring up in a fight with your wife or girlfriend is her body. Don’t tell her that you think that she has gotten fat. Don’t tell her that she is ugly. Don’t say things like “your chest looks like a little boys” or “your butt is so big (insert insult here).” Telling her anything negative about her body during a fight is only going to get you further in the doghouse. Believe, me woman may forgive, but they do not forget. So, if you ever plan on trying to be intimate with her again, you better control your temper and never say anything about her body during a fight.
Never start off a sentence to your wife or girlfriend with “My ex had a..” or “My ex’s (body part) was…” This is absolutely wrong and should never be done. Don’t ever compare your current wife or girlfriend to your ex especially when it comes to her body. Most women are quite self-conscience about their body and if you mention anything about your ex’s body, you can count on your current girl to never want to be intimate with you again. In fact, you may as well just look up your ex and try to get back with her.
Lastly, if your wife or girlfriend has never brought up plastic surgery to you, never ever bring it to them. Don’t ask them “Have you ever considered plastic surgery for that?” How would you like it if the situation was reversed and they asked you if you have ever considered plastic surgery for your beer belly or for your crooked nose you broke playing football? Asking a woman about having plastic surgery is basically just pointing out her flaws and telling her to fix them to your liking. Remember that even though most woman do want to keep in shape and look good for their men, that you are not the only reason why we do it. We actually do it for ourselves some of the time.
So, next time you are talking to your wife or girlfriend and anything about her body comes up, remember this: Think, then talk!
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Tags: body, don't say, girlfriend, men, wife
Recently this guy I liked and was getting to know over the net for some months and we were going to meet, insulted me big time. After months of getting to know each other, sharing so much about our selves, and never talking sex so it was always heart to hear talk, and even him stating out romantic things like i was the girl of his dreams.. he suddenly drops the following mayor insult when I was talking about some photoshoots I have gotten with different photographers (i am a recording/composer artist and have been portrayed often). He said 1st that the one photographer “wanted to sleep with me” because he did not like the pictures, and then after I took this with calm and assured him it was not the case, he had to drop the final bomb that made me blow up in a split second. AND that bomb was: “yeah the other guy took the nice pictures because you probably slept with him”. To this I went nuts (because none of that was even remotely true and he knew it) and responded with : “get rid of that attitude or i will get rid of you!!” , then he started yelling ridiculous things like that he was not my “trained monkey” and he did not have to do as i said… at this point i hanged up (cannot stand someone yelling at me) after trying to find the botton in the computer to do this.
Till this day he has not apollogized , in fact he kept writing on the chat saying how “I acted as if i was a “prize” and I was absolutely not, and that my vanity was overwhelming”… none of which had anything to do with his insult to me, out of nowhere and I was just chocked at how someone could be so stupid and/evil to say such things. Frankly I still cannot understand what goes on inside the mind of this man, who had been most of the time nice but I have told some friends and some say it was just a stupid thing and i should not take it that bad. I think its outrageous, I think its awfull and that he should have been slapped big time or taken directly to therapy for being so f*** up cause none of ti made sense. He went on to write on the chat even when I was not there anymore, telling me to not bother to write or call him anymore… I flipped out. How can one be so stupid, so arrogant when one is the one insulting? my only thought is that this guy is seriuosly perturbed and that he is also 8 yrs old and has been abused and his unresolved issues make him go nuts and flip an irrational drama queen mode. now some days after I actually feel pity for him, for his great loss and feel like writing to him, but i know i shouldnt.
I have to say i am a woman with great self confidence and self esteem and some people who dont know me see me as arrogant but thats because they are insecure themselves because i know my faults and my suceses and i say them no problem. But i cannot stand men who cant stand secure women and unfortunatly ive encountered this problem many times before where they will fall for me and then they start the whole controlling emotionally abusive cycle to try and put me “down”… its crazy but I wish I could know how to avoid it altogether.
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Thank you for this! Last night during an argument with my boyfriend (we’ll see for how much longer!) He said ‘Well, you’re not a thin as you were when we first met!’…Need I say more?
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