Signs That You May Be Getting Dumped Soon

Saturday, March 21st, 2009

Believe it or, women do give signs that they are going to break up with you. It’s sad to see some men, totally oblivious when it comes to the signs that their woman is giving them. Being aware of these signs, can not only help you deal with getting dumped, but you may be able to save your relationship before she ends it with you.

Here are some telltale signs that you may be getting dumped by your woman soon.

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1. She no longer shows any interest in making any plans with you. She may allow you to make all the plans and she just goes along with the ride. Also, along with this, she may not make any future plans with you such as she doesn’t agree or get excited about going to a concert with you next month.

2. She shows little interest in physical contact with you. If she used to hold you hand all the time in public, but now doesn’t even seem to acknowledge you are next to her, she is most likely looking for her next boyfriend. This also goes for in the privacy of you own home. If she doesn’t want to be kissed or doesn’t like cuddling with you anymore, it’s a sign that you may actually turn her off now.

3. She generally tries to avoid you now as much as possible. She may not return your phone calls right away, or maybe she is super busy at work and can’t get off for your date night.

4. She starts spending more time with her girlfriends going out rather than spending time with you. This may be her trying to find her next victim before she breaks it off with you or she may be wanting to be single again without the hassle of a relationship.

5. She doesn’t argue with you anymore like she used to. Instead of arguing she may not care anymore, so what is the point in arguing. It just doesn’t matter to her.

6. She starts criticizing every little thing that you do. Things that she may have found cute and endearing about you in the beginning, now annoy and piss her off. She may even start to attack your actual character instead of just getting mad at the things that you do.

7. When she comes home from a long day at work, she doesn’t seem glad to see you or talk to you. She rather be alone or do something else than talk to you or spend time with you.

8. She doesn’t show an interest in your life anymore. Maybe you always went to your favorite team’s sporting events together and now she doesn’t want to go. Or maybe she used to ask you how your big project at work is going and now she hasn’t asked you about work in over 3 weeks.

If you find that your girlfriend or wife are displaying any of these signs, it may be a scary time for you, but you need to address the situation as soon as possible. This is especially true if you want to salvage your relationship and try to make it work. Don’t personally attack her, but ask her outright where she thinks your relationship is heading. Dealing with the problems before they get too out of hand can make it possible for your relationship to work. On the other hand, if she really is not happy and wants out, you have to give into her wish and just let her know how you feel and just give her some space to think.

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